
When I envisioned doing hair for my children I always sort of
pictured ponytails and clips. That is not at all the case. Hailey is far from any type of hair "doing". My 5 year boy on the other hand is already requesting that I spike his hair before school (only on school days mind you....the rest of the time he could care less).
And today, he asked if he was old enough for a cell phone. Wow, all this is happening much too fast.
On the other hand, he melted my heart the other day. Hailey gets great pleasure out of wiping off kisses that anyone gives to her. Dave and I can't even get a little kiss on her without her dramatically wiping it off (with a big smile). Tyler and Hailey were playing very nicely the other day and she was running into his arms for big hugs. At one point he gave her a kiss right on the head.....and she wiped it right off. His response, "That's
ok Hailey, my kisses go straight to your heart". Why didn't I think of saying that?
And a small glimpse into the busy mind of a 5 year old......Tyler and his many questions. While at the bookstore the other day Tyler saw a model skeleton kit and one that also had various organs you could take in and out (all part of an educational kit). I think the skeleton and something he must have heard when he and Dave were reading left him with a series of questions for me. The types of questions that are so hard to answer and the ones that make me think "he really "gets" it. He really thinks about this stuff".
Ty: "What does it feel like to be dead?"
Me: "I don't know, I've only been alive"
Ty: "What's it like in heaven?"
Me: "I think, in heaven, we will be surrounded by all of the things and people we love"
Ty: "I think it will be like sleeping and dreaming that all of your favorite things are all around you."
Ty: "Why do people die?"
Me: " After lots of years are bodies get tired and they don't work as well"
Ty: "What about doctors, can't they help us"
Me: "Yes, doctors are able to do so much to help us when we are sick and hurting but when we are older, our bodies are just too tired".
Ty: " What about a long time ago when the doctors didn't know as much"
Me: " Yes, a long time ago, there weren't big hospitals and technology and a lot more people died just from getting sick."
Ty: "Did kids die?"
Me: "Yeah, some did"
Ty: "I think just one"
Ty: "How did the very first doctor ever learn what to do to help people?"
Me: Holy Smokes, how do you think of this stuff?? "Well, that person really liked helping people feel better, so he/she tried lots of different things to see what worked and they more they tried the better they got at helping people feel better". (???????) Where's your dad when we need him.