We are actually down in Bend OR this week with slow internet access. I will try to get some pics up in the next few days but for now a couple of pictureless blogs.
Tyler is a great talker. He talks nonstop all day long and for the most part has very interesting things to say. I have to document somewhere the sentence that most often comes out of his mouth....."What for?" We hear this literally 50 times a day. It is his version of "why" and will ask it about absolutely everything. He will even continue to ask what for? in response to the answer you give him for his original what for? If Tyler is talking to us and we ask him "What for?" He says "just cause". Tyler also wants to be a part of every conversation. Dave and I have not been able to finish a couple of sentences to each other without interuption in a very long time. Tyler listens to everything. Once we start a conversation Tyler comes over and asks "What are you talking about?" We give him his answer and he says "Tell me about it". He'll come up and sit in our laps and have an indepth conversation about it. I love that Tyler is so interested in all that is said and I think that curiosity is wonderful but I also look forward to the day that Dave and I can start and finish a conversation!
Hailey is becoming more and more verbal as well. For a while now she has been babbling in her own language. She will walk up to us or over to a toy and say 3 or 4 sentences of complete gibberish. She has a handful of signs she does that makes our lives a lot easier....more, all done, eat, airplane, and bird are a few. But she also has quite a few words....ball, up, shoes, mama, dada, baby, done, wow, uh oh, no, no, hi, eat, stuck. Her most common word by far is uh-oh. She uses it properly though the uh oh's aren't always as problematic as she makes them sound. Thanks to her brother's influence she is also quite good at saying "big jet" and "chugga, chugga (for trains). We swear she is also saying "what's that" (she says this all the time) though an outsider might struggle to actually interpret that. She is such a character. She is contantly giving us dramatic facial expressions, just to get us to laugh. Unfortunately she has also recently started screaming whenever she doesn't get her way....which apparently is often. It's a painful noise. She keeps us laughing though and can get Tyler doubled over in laughter when they are both in the right mood.
One of my biggest challenges right now is balancing their mother snuggle needs. Tyler has always been a snuggler. He likes to get his blanket and have me carry him around or we'll sit on the ground and he just curls up in my arms (I love this). When he is really tired his need for being held increases. He has recently stopped napping but is really tired by about 4 in the afternoon. So from about 4 to 6:30 (when their bath times start) he is very needy. Hailey has never been a snuggler. If it's time for sleep she wants in her bed. If she wants to snuggle she snuggles her blanket. But she loves hugs and will run across the room to hug Dave or my legs or run into our arms for a big hug. Even though she's not a snuggler, she wants me to hold her all the time. This need has been more intense lately. So, in the afternoon when they are both tired (Hailey is also in a period of adjustment moving from 2 to 1 nap) and Hailey wants up and Tyler wants to snuggle, you'll often find me melting to the floor. It's my way of giving in. I'm holding Hailey and Tyler can find a place to snuggle in. And there we sit until one of them sees something else they want to do.